Where the line is
- Fine: brainstorming by answering questions, checking spelling, hearing where a draft is unclear.
- Not fine: letting AI write a draft, a paragraph, or rewrite sentences into its own words.
Should parents help?
Yes, the way a good teacher would: ask what happened, ask what it meant, point at what’s unclear. Then hand it back.
How Pennantist handles it
The essay coach asks questions about your teen’s draft and points at what’s unclear. It never writes a sentence. The story bank keeps real moments from the weekly log, so your teen has material of their own. Privacy and safety
Questions parents ask
Is it cheating to use AI on a college essay?
It can be. Common App’s fraud policy lists passing off the substantive content or output of an AI tool as your own original work. Colleges can add their own rules on top, so read the policy of each college on your teen’s list.
Can colleges tell if an essay used AI?
Whether or not a reader can spot it, the consequences are written down. If Common App finds fraud, it can suspend or close the applicant’s account and tell the colleges on their list. Caltech says applicants who break its AI guidelines may have their admission taken back.
Can my teen use Grammarly or spell check?
Usually, yes. Brown allows AI for spelling and grammar review, like any basic proofreading tool, and Caltech allows tools like Grammarly to check the grammar and spelling of a finished essay. Neither allows AI to supply what the essay says.
Can AI help my teen brainstorm?
It depends on the college. Caltech allows AI to suggest questions or exercises that start brainstorming, but not to outline or draft. Brown doesn’t allow AI for anything beyond spelling and grammar, so check each college’s policy first.
How much should a parent help?
Georgia Tech’s admission blog tells parents not to write or rewrite the essay, however tempting. What helps instead: let your teen talk ideas through out loud, push for specific stories and details, and have them read the finished essay aloud.
Sources
- Common App: Fraud policy
- Caltech Admissions: AI policy, guidelines for fall applicants (Fall 2026)
- Brown University Admission: Integrity in the application process
- Georgia Tech Admission Blog: A parent’s guide to the college admission essay
Rules change. Confirm with your school counselor before course selection.

